Okay… and after that? You’ve taken care of yourself and you’re ready for action. Now it’s important to create the right atmosphere with the right lady, is she the playful type or more romantic? Do some reading about how to make an intimate connection. Adjust the environment accordingly. Put on some nice music, dim the lights, and light some candles! Have two glasses and some champagne ready.
Now it’s time for action. Both of you are sipping a nice drink, the conversation flows, and you’re coming closer together. You look into her eyes and you subtly bring your face closer to hers. Subtly grab her face with your hands, let your thumb softly touch her temple and your fingers slide under her ears down to her neck. Slightly tilt your head, she will do the same (otherwise you do it subtly with your hands), and then your lips will touch each other. There is an instant warmth and sensuality. Don’t attack with your tongue immediately. You’re already very close, your turn will come. But take your time!
Let your lips get used to each other and don’t use your tongue right away. Let your lips glide and kiss the lower lip or upper lip. Make it a loving game and build it up to a lovely “French Kiss”.
Now slowly use your tongue and glide a little bit with your tongue between the lips of the other. This will quickly be answered with the touch of her tongue. Then pull your tongue a bit back and keep kissing with your lips. After that you bring your tongue with conviction inside her and let yourself be carried away in the game. Don’t swirl your lips like a washing machine, but do some variations. Play with the lips for a bit, and use your tongue from time to time, but mainly take your time.
Oh, small detail… Don’t forget to keep breathing!
And whether your kissing game lasts for five minutes, half an hour or three days, the most important thing is building up the game!