(BD)SM course

Abbey, our dominatrix

I’m (Abbey) and I’m a professional (bd)sm dominatrix and as of present I also teach (bd)sm courses to individuals and couples. It’s also possible to book an SM Experience with me. During an SM Experience I will not expand too much on theory (like learning new skills) as you can find here below, but we will go more into your wishes as we have discussed. Do you want to gain more knowledge and improve skills in the world of (bd)sm? Then I definitely recommend booking a (bd)sm course. This course is not just about theory, we will also be practical and dive into your wishes and desires.

Both can be booked via Pink Sheets, you can contact Amy for a (bd)sm course or SM Experience.

Rate for a (bd)sm course is €1000, – (based on 3 hours)

Rate for an SM Experience is €1250, – (based on 3 hours)

What’s the difference between bdsm and sm?

Bdsm and sm are often linked to each other. While both do have a different meaning. During an sm session, elements of bdsm can definitely occur. The “B” and “D” stand for bondage, dominance and discipline. Two relatively soft parts of a session. Sadism and masochism are a step further. Here we talk about giving and receiving pain. Bdsm is often about submission and bondage is part of that. Most of the time there is sexual stimulus involved.

The ”S” stands for sadism and the “M” for masochism. Sadism is the one who enjoys “hurting” his partner. Masochism stands for the one who enjoys receiving the pain.

Sadism: It can be pain, the desire to humiliate your “partner” or seeing them being challenged to whatever their facing. It gives a rush to see the discomfort, seeing them spin around or turning red.

Masochism: It can give you a rush receiving pain, humiliation or getting into a stressful situation. It doesn’t have to be different kinds of pain or torture. You can simply decide to receive one specific kind of pain and indicate what you want, so that the game works well for the both of you. There is no rule of thumb about how much pain you need to enjoy to be a masochist. Some people enjoy sharp pain on the skin. Others might enjoy strong pain that hurts their muscles. It can be persistent pain, just the feeling of pain, the idea that you’re going to be hit or the feeling to endure the pain for another. All forms of masochism are okay.

Introduction (bd)sm

Explore (bd)sm on a lowkey level. What attributes do you want to use? How do you use them? What fetishes do you have? Can I turn my fantasies into reality? Discover together or as an individual if it’s something for you. We will discuss your fantasies and let you give a taste of the world of (bd)sm. Just simply discover whether it’s something where you desire lie without undergoing a whole session immediately.

There is room for questions to feel whether it’s something for you. You will be guided through the diverse world of (bd)sm. In case you have any specific fantasy/fetish/kink, we can discuss this in detail and show you the experience with that fetish.

Do you have experience already within the world of (bd)sm?

Do you have experience already within this world? I can help you to go a step further. Maybe learn some new skills or learn more about a specific kink. Together we will expand on your skills in a safe way. These can be (shibari) techniques, taking “impact play” a step further, or just explore the mental side. I have experience with many different kinks and fetishes, so if you want to specialize in one fetish, I would gladly help you. Do you want to learn how to let yourself go more during a session? I can give you tips and tricks to go a step further.

Brushing up

You are already familiar with the (bd)sm world and have lots of experience. Maybe you just want to go through some specific steps? Or do you want to elevate your “playtime”? This is definitely possible. Even the heavier fetishes can be discussed. Think of fullbody shibari, breath play, workshops, heavy impact play, cbt etc.

Fetishes I have a lot of experience with: